Have you ever had a great flirtation going with someone and all of a sudden realize that you've totally lost that person's attention -- or that instead of a big smile you're getting the hairy eyeball? What'd you say? What'd you do?

There's a good chance you made a supreme star-crossed gaffe -- but were completely unaware of it. Avoid repeating that scenario by finding out your date's sign (c'mon, it's really not that hard or that cheesy to ask!), and then proceed, armed with the knowledge below and the stars on your side.

Aries Women: Smart, open and willing to tell you exactly what you did wrong
Turn-Ons: Quiet admiration, clever conversation, enthusiasm for group activities, say, agreeable to partnering in coed tennis tournaments
Turn-Offs: Wussies, braggers, idiots, anyone who answers a question with "Wouldn't you like to know," partners who cling at parties, sore losers

Taurus Women: Comfort-loving, cute and totally stubborn
Turn-Ons: Stable personalities, tender moments within an evening of strong, manly behavior, those who appreciate HGTV and Extreme Makeover: Home Edition
Turn-Offs: Trash talk, lack of interest in food, exercise fanatics who want to compare BMI's

Gemini Women: Flirtatious, alluring and unedited
Turn-Ons: Eye contact, people with connections, listening to conspiracy theories involving people you both know
Turn-Offs: Timidity, long-winded stories with weak punch lines, bad breath, lack of interest in party-crashing

Cancer Women: Selective, passionate and won't ever let you go
Turn-Ons: Persistence, patience, and don't-push-me-away focus, small gifts that show you know her, good grooming, intimate knowledge of the menus of your town's best restaurants
Turn-Offs: Arrogance, people who are careless about their hygiene, being thrown into a crowd of strangers, being told she's going to love your friends, co-workers, family, neighbors or anyone else she hasn't met before

Leo Women: Pleased to share; charismatic, spotlight-loving lovers
Turn-Ons: Good job, good car, good breeding, the ability to get into the hottest restaurants anytime, bling, height
Turn-Offs: Hooligans, smart-alecks, lack of ambition even if you have a trust fund, inability to fake being rich

Virgo Women: Crisp wit, strong taste, and slow to relax
Turn-Ons: Familiarity with spa locations and therapies, easy conversation, a weakness for animals, charitable giving
Turn-Offs: Food from a can, laziness, precise descriptions of wounds, medical procedures or surgery, hotels that are less than 4 stars

Libra Women: Best-dressed, coolly brilliant, and cowardly in conflict
Turn-Ons: Charm, flirtation, and savoir faire, someone who gets fashion, decision-making
Turn-Offs: Arrogance, arguments as entertainment, poverty, dumb-dumb jokes (think belching beer mugs)

Scorpio Women: Sensual, creative and private
Turn-On: Subtle sexiness, loyalty, wealth, well-tailored suits
Turn-Offs: Users, cheaters, blabbers, shouting, prying, smarmy pick-up artists

Sagittarius Women: Curious, energetic and non-domestic
Turn-Ons: Spontaneous dates, good sports, enthusiasm for travel, learning, and not having to know it all
Turn-Offs: Woe-is-me types, stalkers, penny-pinchers, lecturers

Capricorn Women: Cool, careful, and quietly wild
Turn-Ons: VIP passes to anything, having a housekeeper, good real estate, living by the book
Turn-Offs: Crybabies, people who think being called a "Zany wackjob" is a compliment, unemployment, scuffed shoes

Aquarius Women: Unpredictable, immovable, and fascinating
Turn-Ons: Smart in a National Public Radio sort of way, easy rapport, enthusiastic proposals and propositions
Turn-Offs: Invasion of privacy, narrow-mindedness, emotional dictators, goody-goodies

Pisces Women: Melodic, agreeable, withholding
Turn-Ons: Well put-together wardrobes, animal lovers, good wine cellars, being able to just sit and do nothing
Turn-Offs: Blackberry addiction, fussy eaters, complainers, insults to family even if they are well deserved

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